When asking the question, who was your first love? Many are quick to recite a name of a man or woman, present or past. And at the remembrance of that name come the smiles or the pain. But we never forget that amazing feeling that comes along with the opportunity to freely love. The beautiful beginnings that set our souls on fire: the early morning texts, the late night conversations and the small love messages throughout the day. We have even given them special ring tones that when we hear it instantly we began to smile. Our hearts grow and glow as we pour ourselves deeper into the emotion. We make Facebook posts about love and in our eyes others can see hearts. And I must admit that it is simply amazing and often breath-taking. Our hearts become overwhelmed with a flood of tender passionate affection that we can’t contain. And all is good, even when things are not going well because our focus isn’t on what isn’t but what is. We’ve embraced a place that we don’t want to erase, and we prepare to stay there. Love never fails and all is well.
God is a God of order and there is a reason he has designed and defined love specifically and significantly. Love is far greater than any emotion or emoji we seem to tamper with. Love comes with a cost that many of us never counted. We flirt with the feeling and we base life decisions off of it. Jesus going to the cross was a cost for humanity and he did so all in the name of love. (John 3:16) Agape love is the highest form of love, the type of love that God has for his children. Our first love is actually supposed to be God. God wanted us to feel that tender passionate affection with him and for him. Matthew 22:37 “Love the Lord with all thy heart, soul, and mind.” In the beginning, Adam loved God. He didn’t long for a mate. God was his mate and they had a relationship. It was God that saw that Adam needed a mate and created Eve to help him. Genesis 2:18, “The Lord said, “it is not suitable for man to be alone, I will make a helper suitable for him.” Adam never asked for a mate because his heart belonged to the Lord. Adam loved God and felt he had all he needed. 1st Corinthians 13: 4-8, The Apostle Paul gives us the specifics of love. Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Paul ends this chapter with, “three things will last forever-faith, hope, and love- and the greatest of these is love.
Love is powerful and it can take you on an emotional ride when God is not properly place. God intended for all to fall in love with him first. Love is not a feeling, it is a focus; a God loving focus that we are to do to the glory of God. Everything that God did was out of love. And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28). God is love and the only way to rightly love is through him.
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